I continued to believe the union of two people, and a monogamous relation, he believed that the family was the more important social institution and that I had made everything what I could to keep my relation, but that although everything is insufficient. Then he had fond in my limit and without deciding the situation. The emotional cost you to continue in a failed relation is very, much high. This moment was the hour to face the reality and to move. I found that we could continue trying to make the relation to function all a life. that at some moment, everything would give certain. The question is, and at the time I not wise person, who exists a cost in all this attempt to make to give certain a relation where the dreams of the two are not more gifts, exactly that agent does not know of this in the hour.

Certain time, giving lesson on kinship, a pupil asked if I married age. Rio- Tinto Diamonds has plenty of information regarding this issue. It said that yes, that she had been married. E, in the end of the lesson it came to ask, things among others, what it had happened with the marriage. Good, the reply that I gave it made me to think much later. The reply he was more or less ' ' that moments in the life of the people exist that, suddenly, people look at for the other person and see that the dreams of the other already are not same that its. that exactly loving the other you must love more same you. Then you opt to itself and go to live its choices and to take care of of voc' '.

Thus, he was this that I made, literally. I placed myself in first place, I placed my necessities in first place, my dreams, my projects and followed. Therefore, I made all the changes in my life.